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Hello Everyone,
I want to start by saying that I had every intention to finally tell the whole TRUE story of "The Book" after this final episode. I even had it written out weeks ago but I was unable to post it until now.

After really thinking about it I have changed my mind. I am TIRED of talking or even THINKING about this book. It was NEVER about the book in the first place. I am also writing this blog without watching the second half of the reunion show. I kind of know what went down because I was there. But you never know how things could be twisted to look a different way.

So what I am about to give you is what is in my heart.

I have never in my life been in such a bad place than I was during the filming of this show. I signed on for this show shortly after I read a book called The Power of Now. This book completely changed my life. I was quite honestly the happiest that I have ever been. I am not saying that I was unhappy before I read this, but I was not at peace with certain areas of my life. I had everything to be happy about, a beautiful healthy daughter, a husband that I love, a thriving career and a foundation for sick children that was so rewarding. But some things would bug me. I have always dealt with my fair share of negative comments mostly from people who didn't know me. To me this was mind-boggling. I woke up every morning with the intent to do nothing but good for myself and everyone around me. So to hear these CONSTANT comments and rumors were hurtful to say the least. I would always let that get to me...until I read this book. I am not saying that I am perfect, far from it, but I never would want to intentionally hurt ANYONE ever. I am sure that I made mistakes and said and did the wrong thing here and there but it was NEVER done with ill intentions. So WHAT'S my point in all this? I'm getting to it...LOL.

When Danielle and I had the initial falling out, it was the way in which she spoke to me that freaked me out. NEVER in my 36 years of life has anyone ever spoke to me like that. When I hung up the phone I sobbed. Not because of the content of the conversation, because she managed to bring out someone inside of me I didn't even know was there. It was a side of me I have never seen or heard. It was in that moment I decided this girl is NOT for me, she was toxic... I never want to go to that place again, and that is what I TRIED to do from that moment on.

Comments

1523 Comments
11/17/2009 - 4:31pm
Alicia Jade

You guys blow Orange county away as far as entertainment. The women of the O.C. do not represent 99% of California they are such an embarassement!

11/17/2009 - 2:12am
Brittany S.

Dina, as one Jersey girl to another, i truley love the person you are. I see a lot of my self in you. I speak my mind as you do, and only try to speak the truth. I hope you come back on for another season, as you all were my favorite Housewives season on BRAVO. Thanks for being real and making Us look good in Jersey!!
Much love, Britt

11/16/2009 - 11:42am
VictoriaChristinaRuiz

Hello Dina!

My name is Victoria and I'm seventeen just so you know! I just want to say that I am greatly inspired by your words of wisdom. The show is great but there's just too much drama. But hey, there's drama everywhere, right? That's the sucky part of life. Looking foward to seeing you and the rest of the cast next season!

P.S.

My grandma likes the show too..LOL.

11/04/2009 - 9:57pm
Brendaetta

Please can you just forgive and forget, I pray that you never ever do anything that might hurt a person. Stand and watch as all walk away without even looking back. God is good/has been and will always be, so be friends with a person that the people in your world hates, this will be hard and my cause you great pain but pray and think on it.

11/02/2009 - 9:55pm
LovingSoul4u2

Bravo to you Dina! I am glad that you've let all of this roll off your back and have peace with yourself. That is truly what counts. Thanks for the explanation although you did not owe anyone an explanation. I hope that if they do another season of your show that you will come back, but I don't wish for you to endure the abuse you received. I hope and pray that Danielle has truly learned what forgiveness truly is and if brought back, she'll not cause so much drama.

10/29/2009 - 3:10pm
ish

omgggggggggg im from london uk i watched as many as i could (when i remembered that it was on) i loveddddddddd the show, i hope you guys will be making many many more...

i like you, i think your real and i love the way you and your sister stick together, and have eachothers back.

your a wonderful person, your GORGEOUS babe, you come across a kind hearted person which is why i like you oh your a good mother 2.

at the end of the day darling people talk shit regardless even if you where a very good person, so let the laters hate (ahmmm danielle) wish them all the best and let it go.

also loved your sister caroline and your sis-inlawz.

take care love.
God bless

10/28/2009 - 4:20pm
Pinklady78

OMG - so funny what u said about ur cat Grandma Wrinkles because all through the show i kept saying the cat looked a bit like u...its the eyes...not that u have any wrinkles....
Anyways i'm a fan of the show....and i admire u and how ur raising ur daughter, u seem to keep a good balance of been Mom and a Friend.....
And i completely agreed with u about the whole Danielle ordeal, who needs drama it would be a different story if she was ur sister but she's not even a friend. Its just a shame it cos'd so much drama for u and J&C...but glad to hear its all behind u...

10/28/2009 - 11:14am
Sarah UK

Hi Dina,
just wanted to say well done for being the bigger person with the whole Danielle thing, fogiveness allows you to move on and focus on the important things in life. I do feel sorry for Danielle she seems to have been through some tough times and they can make you say and do things you don't meant to but those are issues that she needs to deal with and move on with her life. Stay Happy and love life

10/27/2009 - 7:52pm
Frankii

Dina, hey im the UK and I love the show. I thought you were one of the best characters and I think you're absolutely stunning too. I was really sad when you and Jacqueline had the argument, because one thing I didnt want was her relationship with Danielle affecting yours. I love the way you handled the who drama as well you kept your calm and let the attacks on you fly right over your head. I really admire that, and that taught a few things too ! You go girl, Keep it up

10/25/2009 - 8:44pm
Peet

Hi Dina - I am from Northern NJ and it's super exciting watching you and your family/friends on tv. You and Caroline and Teresa are my faves!! All the best on the next season. Peace, Angela

10/22/2009 - 3:07pm
Bojangles

I'm in the U.K and have been addicted to your programme, all I will say is that whatever went on it's obviously a lot more than the viewers know. Dina you are a beautiful woman and you don't need people like Danielle in your life! I gope your family can get over this! xx

10/21/2009 - 6:11pm
Mwah Mwah Mwah!

Love u Dina! You are such a beautiful, forgiving, wonderful young woman. You are a true inspiration and I think I could DEFINITELY learn a thing or two from u! Stay true to u girl!

10/21/2009 - 9:18am
Jo

Hey Dina,

You are a classy, funny, talented, gorgeous lady and of course a damaged woman is going to have a hard time dealing with that!

You conducted yourself very well. The truth is clear to all the viewers. Your relationship with your daughter is healthy and beautiful to see.

Rising above it is absolutely the best course of action as someone needs the flames of their drama fanned - you choosing not to fan them will hopefully mean she loses interest in the lack of drama, that she needs like a drug, and moves on.

Continue to count your blessings, love your family and enjoy a happy life.

...now I'm going to order a copy of "The power of now"

10/18/2009 - 7:53pm
frownin70

I have fallen in love with The Real Housewives of New Jersey...Much appreciation to you and your family for putting your lives out there for all to judge...My comment is not to judge what took place on the show but to thank you for letting me in. You are beautiful! Watching you I would love to think my life has some parallels to yours with family, friends, and yes even some toxic people. Thanks again for letting us all watch your day to day drama. Hope to see a second season?
With great appreciation
April

10/16/2009 - 5:40pm
jackie burks

Dina,

I would like to know where you purchase your crosses. They are the most beautiful pieces of jewelry I have ever seen.

Thanks,

10/15/2009 - 3:27pm
erica

Dina i am 20 years old and i want to strive to be as classy and beautiful as you are...another great book that changed my life was steve covey's 7 habits of highly effective people...it keeply changed my outlook on life...i kind of feel like i was having a middle life crisis at age 20...strange but still i would never blog on anything but you family is so amazing that i just couldnt help myself if i ever hear negative commentary i feel like it is my duty to squander it...your are beautiful and you represent new jersey woman beautiful. your real. and i wish you the best in the next season and in life...your an amazing woman and sharing it with the rest of the world is a selfless and courageous!

10/09/2009 - 9:09pm
ViewerTeri Story

Dina, Hi! I just want to say that I think you are a very true person. What I mean by that is that you try to live openly and honestly;( the way God wants all of us to do). Please stay true to yourself and don't let the (FAME) change you. Take care of yourself and those close to you, God Bless, Teri

10/09/2009 - 8:51pm
LindaO

Dina....I wish you peace and love. You "have your head on straight." You have your priorities in order, and you are kind, generous and such a positive role model. Life is too precious and short to focus on or associate with the negative. God bless you and yours.

10/09/2009 - 7:02pm
Viewer

Dina,
xD Women From Ohio Can Be just as fun as the one's from new jersey!?!?!?

10/07/2009 - 12:05pm
JJ

I love the way you are keeping it real. My best to you and yours.

10/05/2009 - 1:48pm
Viewer

Dina,

Do you not see that you are hurting someone by writing a blog and demonising another human being as being 'toxic'?

Is that not intentionally hurting someone?

09/24/2009 - 10:23am
Viewer

dearest dina,i adore you.beauty,brains and a gold heart.thats you.you are a wonerfull person,great mom.i wish you all the best in life.keep up the great work you are doing with your little lexi.love you both.

09/24/2009 - 8:40am
Jill

Dina,
What is the name of the designer of the tan/grey shirt with the yellow collar? I have had my eyes on it since day 1!!!!
Can't wait for the new season to start!!!!
:)

09/23/2009 - 6:08pm
Viewer

Hi,
Love your character on the show. I have to say I read "The Power of Now" and didn't GET IT. I read the book "A New Earth" and got it BIG TIME!
What you put out there is what you get back, absolutely. Some things money can't buy and that's class. You've got it.
You could steer the show in a whole different direction now with all that knowledge....wouldn't be much of a Drama though would it?! HA HA HA HA.
Y

09/23/2009 - 8:19am
Viewer

I love the show and think it is awesome that you can forgive Danielle for all the things she has done to hurt you.

09/21/2009 - 6:15pm
Christiane

Hello Dina,
I admire your Project Ladybug work and I hope, if you ever have the opportunity, that you might consider doing some benefit work for the Eastern Christian Children's Retreat in Wyckoff. My son is a resident there and the economy down-turn has been hard on the Retreat.
My son has Down Syndrome and is in one of the three group homes on the grounds of the Retreat. He is beautifully cared for, thank God.

I love the show. I'm sorry some of you had difficulties to arise out of it. Hopefully, your charity has benefitted from the publicity.

I must say that it was a joy for all of us to spend time with 'the Jersey Girls' each week. We feel like you're practically 'family'. We will be watching season two faithfully.

Sincerely,
Christiane

09/15/2009 - 3:47pm
michelle

Love your hair!
Can't wait for the show, hopefully you'll all return can't work without everyone.

09/09/2009 - 3:52pm
Mimistylez

Dina, I love watching you on the show your a great mom and designer! I am a mom of two and I think more moms should put the kids first because they grow up so fast and they need the guidance of there mom and dad! I love to see how you are with your family my family are just as tight and as it should be!! Hope to see you next season

09/06/2009 - 12:21pm
Miss Kellie

Dina,

First of all I wanted to tell you how kind and beautiful you are. You are one of those women that can wear no makeup, and STILL look great. I admire you greatly for forgiving Danielle after hearing that was a bad time for her. I have noticed the you always focus on the positive, aren't full of yourself, and you are genuinely a very nice and considerate person. Not to mention how great of a mother you are, I think that impressed me the most. Your daughter seems like such a great girl and I'm sure that had a lot to do with you. So, stay positive, it fits you! Thank you!

Kellie

09/03/2009 - 10:39am
Great Britai-London Viewer..

Don't Look Down To People, You Don't Know Who U May Need One Day. Life Is Too Short To Step On Anyone> Other Than That U ARE NOT BAD....

09/01/2009 - 6:12pm
sue

dINA,
THIS IS SILLY, BUT I NEED TO KNOW WHERE TO PURCHASE YOUR TABLE AND CHAIRS WITH THE ROOSTER ON IT... IT IS SO FRENCH COUNTRY... BRAND NAME WOULD HELP.... THANKS... LOVE THE SHOW.

08/31/2009 - 7:48pm
ChrisA

Hi Dina,
I am a huge fan of Real Housewives of NJ. My family moved out to Scottsdale, AZ about 20 years ago from Clifton, NJ, so I am familiar with several areas from the show!
I think your family is wonderful! My husband is Italian, and when we married, I found the family to be very close and loving, which is what I saw on the show with your families (except Danielle!).
I am glad to hear you are in a good place now, because I could see how Danielle was trying to come between Jacqueline and you and Caroline. She is a manipulative person, and needs to realize that blood is thicker than water, and eventually Jacqueline would see the truth!
God Bless you all, especially your new little nephew, and Theresa's new baby!

08/31/2009 - 12:14am
Marty

I hope I don't get into trouble for this. Dina you have been my favorite. I think your thinking is right on. And We have a Gut for a reason. Everyone should pay attention to "THE GUT" You are doing a wonderful job with Project ladybug. I Think you are a wonderful person.You are very talented. And I love your cat. And I am not a cat person. Take care and hope all goes well with all your endeavors! Marty

08/30/2009 - 3:00am
Sydney & Mikki ...in Seattle

Viewers and your fans should know your open and loving heart reached across the states and showed my 12 year old daughter fighting cancer, YOU CARE! Dina, I adore you and am so lucky to have you during Sydney's battle with bone cancer.
Your package of love arrived with ladybug project items and its all a hit here at the hospital! You've brought so much excitement to her "enclosed world", she lights up telling everyone you text her. No mom can create that for their sick child and I forever will be grateful for your effort to connect to Syd. You are a genuine and loving mom. We hope to someday get the chance to meet you & Lex. xxooxx

08/28/2009 - 8:01pm
Viewer

dina,
you were so awesome and classy throughout this season! im glad you are in a better place now and that your relationship with jacqueline and chris is back on track!

heres to a great season 2!! whoo whoo!

08/26/2009 - 9:27am
Anne

Dina I was wondering if you could tell me what color lipstick or lipgloss you were wearing on the reunion show.You always look great,but that lip color was to die for and I would love to get that color.Thanks for your time .You take care and God Bless!

08/23/2009 - 11:31pm
Antonia

Dina...you are inspiring...thank you! after reading your blog, I see how hard it was for you to go through certain things...please keep up the good work.

08/19/2009 - 12:35am
Viewer

hey well i truly can say that you are a very honest person i mean we can tell you have a big heart just keep going forward and dont let anything bring you down .

08/17/2009 - 2:49pm
Viewer

Hello!

I was one of those who pre-judged you, your eyes were sad during filming and we found out why.

I am very sorry for that, Danielle is a good actress.
You had a very powerful last blog....best of luck.

08/16/2009 - 10:09am
Adrianna

Hi Dina,

I saw you and Lexi on the highway yesterday and almost had a heart attack!!! My mom said that I should wave and I said, "I dont want to bother her she's probably tired of nagging fans!" But I couldnt let my one in a lifetime oppurtunity go to waste! Thanks for waving back, you and Lexi are so beautiful! We were on our way to Jones Beach and I didnt want to go since it's such a far drive from Westchester, NY where I live and my mom was like see now wasnt that worth it! IT SURE WAS!!!!!

08/14/2009 - 3:36pm
Jessica

Hi Dina!
You are one of the best NJ Housewives!
Everyone except Danielle.
I love your cats and Lexi!!
Lexi rocks! My family thinks she is a great kid! I love her new hair cut!
You rock! Tell her I said hi!
Jessica

08/11/2009 - 11:55am
Shane G.

Dina,

I must apologize to you; you came out of SAK's the other day I did not stop to let you cross. I am usually very cognizant of people but my hubby & I were in a much energized conversation. Don't worry you weren't up to the curb yet.

I enjoy following you and the Ladies on the show.

I wish all of you & your families the very best life has to offer.
Shane

08/06/2009 - 9:37pm
Sheila

Dina,
I think you are great and reading your blog just proves it. I also have a 14 year old daughter....enough said. I feel your pain and joy in watching her become a woman. It truly is a trip. Keep up the good work. Hope to see another season.

08/05/2009 - 11:39pm
Viewer

You are in my opinion the most beautiful housewife in the Real Housewives history. That's saying a lot, considering the NY Housewives has two former supermodels... but I think you look like a princess. :) You're gorgeous, and easily my favorite.

08/05/2009 - 12:47pm
Angel

Dina..I loved the show. The only TV I watch is good Reality TV, most times you would catch me with a book instead of being in front of a television (btw, I did go out and get the book that has become such a hot topic on the show)... What I wanted to say to you is that, I too, did not like your character on the show. I thought you were spoiled, snobbish, and an instigator. HOWEVER, I realize that there is always so much more to tv than what is actually shown to the viewers. I have read your blogs as well as Jaqueline's (I love her, she's awesome) and I totally LOVE who you REALLY are!! You are a great person with a big heart and alot to give. You have an awesome family, and I'd really like to see more families bond together the way yours does! I admire you, you are beautiful inside and out! I am so happy that I have been given the opportunity to read your thoughts on the show.. Best of luck in life! P.s. I am prior active duty currently stationed in OKC with my hubby, but we just came back from visiting his mother in New Jersey. I was praying i'd run into one of you.. tee hee hee! Keep up the positive thinking and don't ever let anyone STEAL YOUR JOY! I always have my hater radar on and I don't have a problem plucking the negative haters from my life...

08/02/2009 - 4:19pm
Diana

Dina,
In one episode you went to visit either Theresa or Jacqueine and brought a house warming gift. You were caring a tray that looked like it had the Louis Vuitton logo on it. I have one and it looks to be the same. I have never seen it again until I saw that episode. Do you know anyhting about the tray? Just wondering. GREAT SHOW I LOVE IT UNLESS YOU HAVE LIVED IT YOU JUST CANNOT RELATE AND BOY CAN I RELATE!

07/31/2009 - 8:51pm
Elaine

Dina, I really enjoyed the show, you were fabulous. Your family is great, a wonderful normal group of people bound by love. Even through all the ups and downs on the show yourself, Caroline, and Jacqueline along with your sweet children all showed your true colors and they shone through brightly, a very funny, genuine family. Teresa, Joe and those girls!!! What can I say? ADORABLE. As for Danielle. I feel sorry for her and pray she finds her way. It was clear to me from the first show who she really was. She gives off a bad, bad vibe and doing that through a TV! WOW. I know that sounds nuts but I can feel and see her energy and its not good. Anyway, I wish you all well and continued success and happiness.

07/31/2009 - 9:27am
Felecia

Dina, I like you on the show, but you need to take your cat to the groomers. Your housekeeper probably didn't want to tell you that she did not sign up to wash animals.

07/31/2009 - 1:20am
Nicole

You really inspire me, I am going out and getting "The Power of Now." You're a wonderful person. God bless you and your family.

07/30/2009 - 9:10am
Lynn

I really appreciate and enjoyed the show. Thanks for letting us in weekly to what is obviously a very close and loving family and allowing us to see real life. I'm going thru a rough patch right now physically with migraines and chronic pain and was able to escape on occasion with this show. Helped me refocus on what's important in my life: my family. Enjoy your daughter and every second with her. My boys are my life and will soon be leaving for college. I too, stopping working to focus on them before they go. Hope you come back but understand if you don't. Teresa made me laugh all the way through. Thanks guys.

07/29/2009 - 7:43pm
Jacquie

Dina, you are one awesome chic!!! I do pray that you and Jacqueline have found a way to mend your ties. She seems like a good hearted soul who want everyone to love one another and sometime, that just can't happen. I am going to keep an eye out on your lady bug foundation. People who have and give back are blessed people. And you are truly blessed. You keep doing you. And your sister Caroline.....I envy you for having such a strong person as a sister. Love love love ya!!! Like I said on a post to Caroline, you NJ ladies (with one notable exception) were true blue housewives. I am so happy to have "met" you, Jacqueline, Carolina and Teresa. You guys were on during my husbands deployment to Afghansitan and it was nice to escape into someone elses life and take a break from the stress of mine. BTW, he is back now, safe and sound. God Bless you and your families and best wishes.

07/29/2009 - 1:04pm
Connie Wheeler

I am not one to take sides when it i sbetween two people. But what I do is give the best advice that I can give. I want you to know that the most inportant thing is having Christ as our Lord and savior. When people are mean its not because they want to be that way, its that they are hurting.The best thing you can do for anybody is pray for them and move on with your life. I can just emagine that you wake up every moring thinking about this whole thing about the show and viewers what they are saying. All you can do is to wake up everyday and be blessed for were you are NOW. The best thing about your job is to see children that are hurting and that is awsome to know that. I cant believe that I am typing on a blog because this is nit what I do. I will never meet you in person, but my words of hope to you can be put in your blog. Just remember that you just need to focus on what is important and that is you. Cause if you fall down that hurts those around you. Some times Dina few word are better then a lot of words, if you know some one that toxit, you dont have to be around that person but just hope the best for them. My momther always told me Connie dont hurt some one child cuse some day you will be a mother and some one talking about your will bring hurt to your heart. What am I trying to say Dina, I know that you look at Danielle as toxit. But she has a mother if still alive who loves her and hurts when she hurts. Be th ebest you can be and that is to love peolple and move on. Hope this reality show taught you that some times its just best to take care of the important things and that is truth! Be blessed

07/29/2009 - 11:40am
Angelica

Dina,

I know and can see that you get a million of these comments to your blog but I just want to tell you that you are awesome! Danielle is definitely disturbed...but two thumbs up on being able to separate yourself and your family from the drama.

Can't wait to see all of you ladies next season!

07/28/2009 - 4:58pm
teena

Hi Dina,

How is the married life treating you fine I hope. Well there may be some people that don't like you well I love ya an don't even know u. You keep it real no matta what anyone has to say to you. An with tha situation between u an Danielle I think u should of kick ha a**. I'm also glad that you a Jacqueline(congrats on the nu baby)are still close because if u can't have family on your side then who will. But all in all i just wanted to say hello an hope to see all of you girls on another season of the Housewives.

07/28/2009 - 12:16pm
Diane

Dina - you and your sister Caroline are awesome!!! You stick together like a family should!! Danielle needs to go. She is a toxic person, she is not good for anyone. It is so obvious she is trying her hardest to drive a wedge between all the family members. She won't be happy until everyone is angry with everyone else. She's miserable so she want's everyone else to be. It's good to know that you are above that - you are a better person than she will ever be.

07/28/2009 - 12:02pm
Viewer

ROCK ON DINA!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

07/28/2009 - 1:57am
Linda Sue

Dina, of all the housewives on the show, I really believe you are the most honest and sincere, true to yourself and true to how you believe others should be treated. Forgiving Danielle, do you know how much good that did for you and your life? Good for you. I take a learning lesson from you in doing that. And, you know what? Seeing Danielle's face when you said that, I believe it went right to her heart and warmed her. I could see it in her eyes. You truly are awesome and I have never seen even a moment of revenge, disbelief at times, yes, but not revenge. Stay true to what you know in your heart and what you are reading in the book. Keep Lexi close, and don't cry about her growing up. Take a deep breath and welcome it! Might help you get through her teens that way! :) Take care Dina.

07/27/2009 - 10:33pm
Gentlemen from Miami Key Biscayne FL

WOW!!!! Hello There Bella,

Dearest Dina, you are so classy, glamorous and so BELLA!!!! Send me one just like you to Miami and she will never leave. A real gentlemen, successful, 46 and in great shape and in need of a real lady. Caroline, is a great sister and goodgate keeper. I' am 25% Italian, Spanish, American and born in Miami FL. The best to you and your family and keep the gate closed!!!! and give the key to Caroline. I like that lady and both husband are VERY LUCKY GUY'S!!!! Stay cool and if in Miami send email csiglobal1@gmail.com and i will get u and husband the best VIP SPA in Miami on me. EWR is your town, MIA is mind!!!!

A gentlemen and nice guy from Miami,FL

07/27/2009 - 9:29pm
Viewer

Dina, you have a wonderful sister in Caroline and a great friend in Teresa. It will be great to see you in season 2 if you decide to tape, minus Danielle, she's a bit much even for reality TV, she needs to be on that show Intervention. Danielle has had much misfortune but needs to learn positive coping skills and how to have a healthy relationship. That she could learn from your family. Not so sure about Jacyln. She is described as having a big heart but she seems a little soft. She needs to put family first. Sorry.. it's true. You all seem like a lot of fun and that's what makes the show entertaining to watch!

07/27/2009 - 12:08pm
Mackenzie Chapman

You go Dina!

07/26/2009 - 11:14am
Diana

I have never actually written in a blog for a reality show! However, I am on a business trip away from my family and I loaded all the episodes. I have to say NJ is the best yet! Dina, you are a great example to me at this moment in my life. I have been the target of drama by family and I truly had one of those moments where I saw myself in a light that I never want to be in again. This is my last business trip away from home, I have resigned and I was having regrets. After seeing the show and listening to the strugle with in us strong women who want it all and have the mentality to do it all we sometimes need to slow down.... You are a strong women and I am glad you are on TV for me to learn from.

07/23/2009 - 4:59pm
Rosie

Dina~
Wehn I began watching the Real Housewives; Orange County, I became hooked on reality shows. Then cam Houseie; NY. I honestly didn't think i was going to watch the NJ ones but honestly I find that this is the BEST one. I love your sense of humor, your compassion and the fact that you come across as very real. I hope that you will be staying on the show. I also love reading your blogs, it makes me life a little easier to handle when I am in another world watching all of you. The other shows don't hold a candle to yours.

07/23/2009 - 4:59pm
Ariel l

hey Dina,

I just wanted to say that you are an awesome mom.
In the episode where your daughter was going away, you handled yourself very well. I would know this because im 16 and when my mom leaves to go to iraq after her r and r's she always cries just for leaving me and my siblings. also you also handed yourself well at the dinner in front of your daughter and friends, because if that was me i would of did worse than teresa did lol.

p.s. hope to see you on the next real housewives

07/23/2009 - 3:20pm
Viewer

Dina, your honestly THE best. Your absolutely gorgeous, you have an amazing family, and Lexie will grow up to be just as pretty as her mommy. Although I don't know you on a personal level, I can see that both you and I would get along for so many reasons. Continue with everything you are doing because your doing it just right. I hope one day I will be able to meet you.

-Marina

07/22/2009 - 1:47pm
Viewer

Dina, at first I wasn't crazy about you because I thought you were being snobby to Danielle and not giving her a chance. Now that the show has come to completion I'm a huge fan of yours. I understand the distance you wanted between yourself and Danielle. I have also read the Power of Now. You need to read Eckhart's "A New Earth", too. It changed my life. I also want to mention that I loved watching you and your daughter interact. You seem like a great mom. It's great that you guys laugh together so much.

07/22/2009 - 12:24pm
Viewer

Dear Dina,

Thankyou for being you, you are realist housewife of all, you have poise, class, intelligence, grace, and your fabulous. I think that alot of women these days can take a leeson from you, cause obviously your doing it all right. I just wanted to let you know that Im a big fan, I love all the girls.

Brooklyn Chique

07/22/2009 - 11:45am
Debbie Lytle

Dina,
YOU ROCK girlfriend, I have so much respect for you, Caroline and Tresea that it makes it enjoyable to see a reality show hold some type of foundation to the truth, I'm sorry to say by I like your sister-in Law Jaqueline but she has a lot of proving to the fans that she is done with Danielle before she earns respect. I know that she is family but respect is earned not given and what she did to you and your family to protect someone who was using her was not right and to put her husband in the middle was just wrong, the saying goes keep your friends close and your enemies closer.

Can't wait for season 2
Dina you girls hang in there and we will be rooting for you.

07/21/2009 - 10:31pm
linda

as someone who grew up in Franklin Lakes I have had to defend my hometown to everyone who is MORTIFIED that this place and these people actually live and act this way....as i have confirmed with them all, these people and these houses did not exist in the Frankin Lakes I knew.....tasteless, crass, money obsessed and tacky.

07/20/2009 - 6:32pm
brianna

i've looked high and low for a replica or something similar to your green cross. it is gorgeous! could you give a hint or a place to find one like it?
god bless.

07/20/2009 - 2:46pm
Viewer

YOU GOT IT GOING ON

07/20/2009 - 12:01pm
Kandice

Dina!

you are amazing and you inspire me!
You are so cute! I loved your wedding special! beautiful!Good luck in everything you do! I wish you all the best and much love!

07/20/2009 - 11:14am
Kristin From Pa

Hey Dina,
I've been wanting to write in for some time now-Thanks for being you, and making me laugh. I truly am entertained watching the show. But I wanted to say that I saw an episode of "Platinum Weddings" which you were featured, looked beautiful from what I could tell. much success to your and your family and stay true!

07/20/2009 - 12:31am
biggest fan!

Dina-
I absolutely loved this season of the real housewives, especially because I live in your area. You stuck out to me the most because you're funny, beautiful, nice, and you just seem like so much fun to be around! You and Lexi are especially hilarious together and I love you too lol. I hope you, Caroline, Theresa, and Jaclyn are all still close because you girls are great together. Please tape a second season so many people want you to! Enjoy the rest of your summer!

07/20/2009 - 12:09am
Elizabeth

Hi Dina,

You've probably gotten so many comments regarding the show.. but mines a little different. I am an interior design/architecture major in Texas. I have to have an internship next summer and was wondering if you ever hired any interns?? After watching the show I really respected you for everything you stood for. I think you are so genuine and love to see how you and your daughters relationship is. My mom and I are just as close and I am so grateful for that so I know your daughter appreciates it more than you can imagine. I also love all the work you do. Most of my friends are getting internships here in Texas but I really wanted something more. I just went and visited my friend in New York who is working for a firm there in design and fell in love with the big city. I really wanted to email you and not write on here because it seems so unprofessional, but I could not find it. If there was any way possible I could send you my portfolio or anything I would greatly appreciate it! Thanks so much!

Elizabeth

07/19/2009 - 9:13pm
Jennifer

I just love you Family!!!! You all are so great. I think your Relationship with your Daughter is great I hope to have that when my baby girl gets bigger too. You girls are strong women dont let that Danielle bring you down. Teresa you are just so cute :) and Caroline Is Great !!! GOD BLESS YOU ALL !!!!

07/17/2009 - 11:22pm
Cassie

Dina,
Project LadyBug is a wonderful organization and I wish nothing but the best for you and your family. May God bless you and your family in all you do.

07/17/2009 - 9:51pm
Viewer

I think your a very classy person. I do think that you really didn't give Danielle a chance at friendship eventhough she tried hard. You said that you like people before you don't like them. Clearly thats not the case.

07/16/2009 - 7:09pm
Dina Fan!!!

Dina I hope you find time to read some of this crap. Just got to say,,, I LOVE YA!! I have been Dina-tized (in a good way) or whatever that crazy drama queen Danielle called it. My daughter and I were in the mall yesterday laughing like crazy as we tried on our designer shades. I asked her " Do these make me look like Dina? Am I looking Hollywood?" (Hell yeah) Your beautiful,, classy,,assertive,, so what if you were not perfect where Danielle was concerned.(We're human) She was "way out there". Reading way more into any given situation,, and it was CLEAR that she WANTED to talk about the book. HELLO,,If it had not been for that topic nobody would have gave a hoot about her. She should thank you (or Caroline) for her 15 extra min. Your attitude always stayed the same. You were cool as a cucumber. Take em' or leave em'. You didn't waste all your time crying and making drama. Beauty does not go to hell in a hand basket,, boo hoo hoo. It's NOT attractive. Your beautiful,,so were Teresa and Caroline. You Go Girls!! Thanks for a great season. LOVED IT!!

07/16/2009 - 4:46pm
ViewfromtheTop

Dina I was just wondering when you stopped working if you are thinking about having a second child? If you have one, it would be about the same age difference as you and caroline right? I think I remember the age difference in years quoted several times on the show. What I want to say to you is unless you are thinking of having another one, please stay involved in some aspect of your career. I left a good job once when my son was 12, and have never recovered career wise or financially because of it. In retrospect, it was such a stupid decision on my part, but hindsight is 20/20. If you are planning another child, which I suspect you are, then I say you are doing the right thing, but jump back into it in a few years....congrats in advance

07/16/2009 - 2:45pm
Viewer

Dina, you are beautiful and classy.
I wish that there will be another session of "TRHONJ" The four of you are awesome. Don't bring the other one (drama Queen), forget about her. Since now you are not working anymore (I know you are still busy with your ladybug project), I think your next project should be concentrated on having another baby in your life. Your daughter and husband will be happy to have another member in the family. You are still young. <3 <3 <3

07/16/2009 - 1:46pm
Heather Davis

Hi Dina,

Enjoy watching you on the show. This is by far the best RHW yet!

I have very light eyes like you, and love the way you make yours up!

QUESTION: What is that neutral taupy-purpley shade of eyeshadow you wear? It makes you eyes really POP!

Have a wonderful summer!

07/16/2009 - 12:57am
Patty U

Hi Dina,
My husband and I got married in May of '08 and we were constantly watching The Wedding channel for months before.We saw yours and have both been to the Brownstone. When Housewives started he called me to the tv because he recognized you right away! Anyway, we loved the show, enjoyed watching it because everything took place in our back yard, practically! We really had fun with it. I wanted to tell you that I loved the scenes with you and Lexi. I loved the way you cook for her and interact. You are a wonderful mom. I loved seeing the bond that you and Caroline have too.You always conducted yourself like a genuine lady through all the drama. I admire your strength and wisdom. Hope to see another season of NJ Housewives. All the best to you and your family, and success with your charity work. Big hugs!

07/16/2009 - 12:01am
Petra

Lady Dina,

It's nice to see that you have taken the time to pause & reflect on that challenging energy that was brought into your life...just when you were ready to Exhale! Great that you put into practice the wonderful teachings of the Power of Now (I too have read it). As some of the others have noted, many of us have had our own troubled Danielle step into our lives bringing THEIR angst and confusion. Sadly it is often due to their severe brokenness that the "know not what they do." Whatever the case may be or the explanations for their mis-treatment of "us", we simply have to pray for them and liberate ourselves from living in the murky waters that is their world. That being said...

Miss Dina, your beauty is absolutely stunning (Whatever pounds you claim to have put on - look fabulous on you!) You are an adorable Mom; Lexi is so lucky to have such a tenderhearted and fun lady to call Mommy! And, best of all she not only knows it, she seems to appreciate you while being a teen (huge achievement!).

Any woman with a silver tip Persian and a beloved cat (Mrs. Wrinkles) with a face "only a Mama could love" is delightful in my book! I've got a pair myself that bring me so much joy everyday.

Having tragically lost my sister, my stealth defender, and my heart & soul suddenly and tragically 4 years ago, {she was only 26} I have to say, you are so blessed to enjoy such sisterly devotion, never let Caroline fahgettaboutit. When my Sister left to be with God, I found peace that she knew just how much she meant to me, how much I adored her.

I'm currently reading "Spiritual Liberation" by Michael Beckwith and with your beautiful nature and sensitive soul, you might enjoy it too.

Mwah....

07/15/2009 - 11:41pm
ashley

Dina,
I would just like to tell you how much I adore you! I watched you on Vh1 and I was obsessed with this season of Real Housewives. My friends call me Dina because they think I'm so much like you! I would just like to say people don't understand what its like to be on a reality show, especially this one. If you not from New jersey your deffiantely going to look at the show completely different. I'm from New Jersey so I understand exactly where everyone is coming from on the show. New Jersey people are one of a kind, but I felt you, Caroline, and Teresa were easy to relate to for everyone. People need to just get over their jealously. I hate Danielle, you should never befriend her. She doesn't deserve it, she's low class. I love Caroline too. You two are so funny, and remind me of me and my sister. I loved watching you, your appearence on the show showed you as a funny, caring, gorgeous, amazing woman!

Simply put I love you! and keep being you, your absolutely fabolous no mattter what anyone says!! Your an amazing mother, sister, wife, daughter. peson in general!! Stay away from insane bitches like Danielle! Your represented New Jersey well, don't forget it!

07/15/2009 - 7:51pm
TINA

DINA, When I SAW YOU GIRLS ON REGIS & KELLY A FEW WEEKS AGO, YOU WERE THE ONLY ONE WHO SHOOK HER HEAD''NO'' WHEN ASKED ABOUT COMING BACK FOR A SECOND SEASON. I HOPE I DID'T MISUNDERSTAND WHEN I SAW YOU DO THIS. PLEASE CONSIDER ANOTHER SEASON MINUS CRAZY D--WHO NEEDS HER DRAMA ANYWAY. YOU FOUR GIRLS OFFER ENOUGH ENTERTAINMENT, BESIDES SHE WAS VERY ANNOYING WHEN HER VOICE WOULD COME ON TV, NEVER MIND WHEN SHE STARTED HER CRAP. JUST PLEASE COME BACK MINUS HER. PLEASE WRITE US AND LET US KNOW. REALITY TV WILL NEVER BE THE SAME WITHOUT YOU GIRLS AND FAMILIES. JUST THINK--WE'LL NEVER GET TO MEET THERESA AND JACKIES NEW BABIES. WRITE US SOON. THANKS TINA

07/15/2009 - 3:13pm
Viewer

Four of you NJ housewives are awesome. I am not much into reality shows, but certainly am waiting for season 2 of yours. Love the relationship you have with your family and Theresa. I'm sorry you have had to go thru so much with Danielle. It just is not rite.I hope you and your brother are able to get to the place you were before she entered the picture.

07/15/2009 - 12:44pm
Nidia

Dina,
I wish you all the happiness in the world. Let me start by saying you & Caroline are awesome. Immediately noticing what kind of person Danielle was. I am the same way. Just watching the show I noticed I too felt the same way about her and that just what I got from watching the show. Even my fiancé (who never watches my "shows" with me) stopped watched about 10 minutes and was like that woman (Danielle) is fake and she just looks like she has skeletons in her closet. Watching the finally show and seeing the drama unfold was crazy I can’t believe she brought the book to a dinner. She has always had a way of changing the focus to her every time! I am glad you, Caroline & Teresa gave Danielle a piece of your mind. Good luck in everything and I hope to see another season

07/15/2009 - 12:20pm
K

Dina-
Thank you for your outlook on life- you are an inspiration. I have recently found myself in a twisted blackhole with people I work with who have found comfort in slandering my name, starting rumors about me and at the end of the day, rounding up others to join in on ignoring me. People who I thought were friends. I've been called every name in the book and accused of things so false and so hurtful, it's hard to imagine.

It soothes my heart to know there is a way to get past it- even if it faces you every day. I'm going to read The Power of Now in the hope that it will ease my mind and get me through this nightmare.

Thank you for who you are.

07/15/2009 - 11:09am
Cat

Dear Dina,

I wish you much happiness. I work in Wayne for a giftware company as an Art Director and senior product designer, and reside in central NJ.

If you ever need my services for any creative assistance, please do not hesitate.

I find you inspiring, in your creative endeavors, charity work and as a mother and wife, balancing it all and leading an authentic life.

I am sure you have many, many letters to read ~ but wanted to send a quick hello
your way.

Hoping that 2009 is full of creativity, abundance, adventure and warm friendship,
be well and take good care on your journey,
Cat

07/15/2009 - 1:22am
Viewer

You're so beautiful AND smart! Wish I was you!

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